I'm not a
games or athletics kind of person. My interest in sports is limited to live
telecasts of cricket and tennis matches. (This can be cultivated as a hobby if
you have the right company. I was lucky enough to get some nice people around
wherever I go - Keerthi in Palakkad, Meera and Meenu at HCU) Well, I always
read my newspaper backwards, that is starting from the sports page. The logic
is in case I don't get time to read it completely I will miss only the
political dramas and not the interesting stuff.
The only game that I have shown any kind of
interest outside television is badminton. During school days, when our
school championship dates are drawn, we used to clean the vacant lot in our
colony. There used to be this small plot that was just enough for a badminton
court. A net was tied, the court was marked, and the matches began. The
carnival begins as soon as the classes are over and continues till its too dark
to make out the shuttlecock. At a set of sweating stinking school kids get back
home, tired but happy. Once the championship at school ends, the net is pulled
down, the court forgotten and the kids pulled down into an endless chain of
class tests, quizzes, midterm tests, and term exams.
After school, I have been roaming around -
college hostels, PGs, apartments - I've always been on the move. I haven't had
the kind of friends, time, or space for any kind of games.
Last week one day I was in my hostel room,
reading something, when a girl from the next room came asked me if I would like
to play badminton with her. Now we are not close or anything. When we happen to
meet we do chat casually, asking the kind of stupid questions that we know are
stupid, but ask anyway. So that's the kind of friendship that I share
with her. Anyway I decide to play and go down with her. We start playing.
It felt
good; the feel of a playing, running around. I generally find it difficult to
run or engage in any kind of activity that puts strain on me due to my asthma.
But playing badminton did not make feel any kind of breathing trouble. In spite
of the fact that I was sweating and taking a bit of strain, I felt fine,
perfectly healthy. I was happy too.
Then we
started talking – about classes, courses that we have signed up, families, home
town, food in the mess and a lot of other things. During that half an hour we
bonded like we haven’t done in last two months!
“Do you
have a boy friend?”
“Yes.
You?”
“No.”
“Why?”
“I didn’t
find anyone nice.”
“You will
find someone soon.”
We wouldn’t
have had such a personal conversation though we live in adjacent rooms if weren’t
playing together that day. It was definitely the beginning of a new friendship.
Half an hour of badminton left me tired,
sweaty, happy and feeling much better about life in general. It also gave me a
new friend. All you need to make life seem better are simple things like this.
:)
ReplyDeleteHa, I can totally relate to that. Recently, when we went to our cousins' place, played badminton after a long long time. I was worried I woulld embarrass myself, but it went well and it was so much fun! I still watch tennis, but need good company to watch cricket. There's nothing like an ongoing commentary with friends when a cricket match is on, even if it is a match India loses abominably to Bangladesh. Haha, brings back memories of the world cup in West Indies!
ReplyDeleteBut it is a good way to make a friend. May be I will also keep that in mind. If you are in need of a friend, call the girl next door for a game of badminton. :)
Really miss those days. :( In any case most of 'our time' players have either retired or are dropped.
DeleteThe bond part, yes, its a good idea! :)